To kiss or it is learned, it is not an ability with which one is born and it is good or no, is possible to be learned and to be improved, like any other ability the more. And, doubtless, it is an extremely important art at the time of finding pair. Many men commit the error to think that they are good besadores by nature, although is not absolutely certain. Nevertheless, for many women it is important to be with a man who kisses well, otherwise although he is charming, attractive perhaps and funny they do not return it to call more. Certainly, the kisses can get to transmit fantastic and unpublished sensations for both sexes. However, there are slight differences on the form how men and perceive them to women. For the man, the kiss is tactics strategic to reach the following level of approach and a form to increase the probabilities of intimar with the woman with whom it is.

For this reason, in first stage of the relation the men usually are more active kissing. In phases more outposts of the relation they usually use them more as it forms of to trench and to solve conflicts, although also in the sentimental relations long play the kiss is used like an indicator that evaluates the degree of complicity and union with the pair and as a form to conserve the existing connection. Some investigations reveal that they are not so selective at the time of choosing to whom to kiss and with whom to go away to the bed and that they attribute to minor importance to them as the relation continues. On the contrary for many women the act to kiss well is a requirement fundamental to look for pair. According to realised investigations, a 20% of the women would be arranged to leave with men who were good besadores although they were not so attractive.